Identity

Identity (1)

Everyone has an unique identity. Just take a look at our finger prints, no one in the world has identical hand prints. Everyone is different. Since we are different by default  and we are best being ourselves; why are we always in war with ourselves somewhat somehow? 

The moment such thoughts of I hate myself, I dislike being me, I don't like this such part of me and that; reason being, as much as we expect from others, we expect of ourselves too. We expect ourselves to do this, and when we fail to deliver, we get disappointed.  Why is this happening? Sorry to say in a not at all sympathize tone. We allow it by letting such incident, remarks, situations, or even past events to repeatedly churn out the same reaction out of us. We are responsible when we allow repetitive emotions accumulates. Especially the negatives ones. 

You may not even be aware. But Be aware now. Be drivers of our own emotions. 

Emotional habits is the toughest to correct. Because each time when such stress arise, most people get into the 'victimized' identity. It takes a lot of undo-ing thinking and  relearning thought processes to produce a good emotional habit. Tough work but can be done.   

Try: React to it differently each time a crisis arise, force yourself to feel different , act different each time no matter how shitty you feel or how it can hurt. U'll figure a way out. Logically, if this way doesn't work to keep your spirits up, there is no point continuing right? To many of us, because and every time a certain crisis arise we fall back into a zone to cause us to doubt even more. Get out of that zone when you fairly know, come-on, its not helping at all. Please try something else, don't waste time. Too much time spend being upset. 

When the tension of our identity crisis starts to accumulate. Our identity got stolen bit by bit when we start to have thoughts thinking; How I wish to be so and so. I wish I can just die, I hate myself.

They come like thieves in the middle of night, we are unaware but it is robbing our life away without us noticing. 

Start making the consensus today, be aware, of how you react to emotional waves that is affecting you today. Try a different reaction. No harm to try or make mistake over it, because; Welcome to the world with endless testings. There's just too many things that will and will definitely get on your nerves, my nerves everyday. 

.Keep trying and we will all get there.

Because there is no such things as failure in my life when I never stop trying.

I made up my mind a few years ago that I will always keep going no matter how I will to feel.

P.S Everyday, I am practicing habits that churn good emotions. No matter how shitty situations or things can get, or what I feel, it's ok. Feelings (Good or bad) come and go quickly for me, its not due to my character or personality that lousy things don't stay long or take root in me, Its a long tough road of practice along these years ever since I made my choice and stick with it. 

Because freedom in life is to be in control of our own emotions. Reap joy, enjoy happiness, to love and be loved. These are some of the things I practice daily. Be aware, make a change, create a habit, reap a destiny.

Love Seven Katie Buny